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text/markdownM¤So my wife and I are on Kiawah Island for a little downtime before she is due with our second baby in January. Our first baby is now two and a half so downtime isnât really the right word, but having him play in the sand while we stare at the ocean is priceless.
Anyway, my wife and I were sitting there staring at the waves and we decided to exchange lists of the otherâs behaviors that we would like changed. A recipe for potential disaster!
The way I figure it, one of the things life is about is change, and improving oneself, changing oneself to be better, more in balance, is a path toward some form of grace.
Here is the list my wife gave me:
1. No more disgusting messes. I need to prioritize cleaning these messes.
2. Donât Monologue.
3. Donât just react to issues I have with my lovely wife but stay Zen and address them.
4. I am super fast. Let my wife be slow.
5. Can't have clothes/shoes everywhere around house.
6. Take shoes off inside.
7. Donât be overly protective of stuff.
8. Follow through on the implementation of the structures that I devise.
9. Donât blame.
10. Pretend to enjoy social situations.
11. Donât get exasperated so easily.
12. Donât accumulate stuff.
This is a partial list as I donât want to overwhelm you with my flaws ha. My wifeâs list wasnât small either!
It went surprisingly well and was a relief, really. We left the beach together still friends.|$2Kbitpostarticletitle5List of Things I Need to Change From My Wife - Day 24|Ðoptsenc0pub1
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